I read a blog earlier about a woman writing her message to her ex boyfriend's new girl. I tear up a bit and told myself that maybe I should write something like that. To prepare myself. Just in case.
So to the woman he will love after me.. this one's for you.
Now, you are love of his life, his best friend, his partner, his everything. I cannot even explain how extremely lucky you are to have him at your side. We had a bitter ending, a very complicated one but he knows, we both know that I have absolutely nothing against his happiness. It will suck for me for a while, but I'd rather see him happy with you than not see him happy at all. So please, i don't say this lightly, please love him not just with all of your heart, but with your entire being.
You have to know that he is not very easy to understand. He values his privacy so much that it might bother you at times, but you have to trust him with that. Trust that there's a reason why you are his girl even though, let's face it, he can have anyone he likes in an instant. There's a reason why he is fighting for you and why he is with you. You will never know why he chooses you everyday, but just be grateful. There are times when you will have a very hard time figuring things out but take it from me, always remember that when he loves, he loves deeply. And love alone can break walls and surpass anything.
His chosen career will be a challenge for both of you. Have patience. And again, trust him. Also, ALWAYS make him feel appreciated. Listen to his songs attentively. Help him in any way you can. Your man is destined for greatness. Never let him question himself. . He deserves all the support in the world. And you should always be his number two fan. Number one spot belongs to his Ate. Don't ever try to compare yourself to that. No one can top her.
He chose you so I'm guessing I need not to remind you to always put God in the center of your relationship. He knows that well enough. He always needs to be reminded that God has plans and that God will never let him down. He will never let anyone down.
Your man will drive you crazy. He will tell you stories you won't even understand at first. Stories about his crazy friends, his love for his craft, all those music notes, movies and series he likes, his everyday life. Just ask. Ask him everything. It will surprise you how easy it is to love what he loves, to understand his world, and how amazing that guy's mind is. Listening is always the key. Actually, that's what he needs. Someone who will listen not just in his music and words, someone who will listen to his heart. That guy's deep and his heart is big. Fill it with love, understanding and kindness. Please.
We both know that he isn't perfect. He has his off moments. Be patient enough to teach him to be patient. Be his partner-in-crime but still inspire him to be a better person. I know it's not a difficult task to do, because when you do it with love, everything just falls in the right place. When he's agitated, keep him calm with your hugs, kisses and words of comfort. Let him know that bad things just happen and eventually everything will be fine. Most importantly, accept him. Accept his entire being. His flaws and insecurities. His past, his present and the future he wants to have. Embrace it. I'm telling you, that man's worth it. He deserves all the love in the world.
This guy gave me genuine happiness on our time together and I will always be thankful for that. But like what I've said, he chose you for a reason. And I've come to acknowledge the fact that our time has passed and maybe served its purpose. I have to let go. Please be his rock - be his inspiration. Take care of his heart, it has been through a lot. Try to not let him down. Help him achieve everything he wants in his life. Always keep him in your heart. I want him to be truly happy even if it meant not being his life anymore.
Above all, I hope you give him a lifetime of happiness and love --- the kind that he needs -- the kind that I failed to give him.
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